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What you need before you talk to your spouse about divorce

Before you go through the struggle of a divorce, one good thing to do is to really consider whether or not you're prepared for it. Once you decide to tell your spouse that you want a divorce, that's when the complications can arise. There are ways to prepare for your divorce ahead of time, so you're ready to move forward once you talk to your spouse about your wishes.

This is a crucial decision that can have an impact for a lifetime. Before you talk to your spouse, sit down and think about your reasons for divorce. In some cases, a separation might work for a short time while you work on marital concerns. Other times, you'll be sure you want to get a divorce and decide to start making plans.

A good plan should start out with you collecting information. You need to know that while you might want to get out of your marriage quickly, a divorce that ends quickly might not end in your benefit. You shouldn't give in to demands just to make the divorce go more quickly. Gathering information before you state that you want a divorce helps, because you'll already know what assets you have, which assets you'd like out of your marriage and what you're happy to negotiate on. You may even already have a settlement that you'd like put together, so you can suggest it to your spouse and his or her attorney.

Collecting information ahead of time is also helpful if you take it to your attorney. He or she can help you understand if you're missing any assets and talk to you about what to expect in the coming months.

Source:, "Are You Really Ready for Divorce? The 8 Questions You Need to Ask," accessed April 18, 2017

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